Sex & relationship advice from Robin Smyth

Looking to spice up your boudoir life? Maybe you want to make that Saturday night just a little more special but aren’t sure how? Why not dial up the heat with a fab costume or go all out and don a racy disguise!

A never fail way to amp up the pheromones is to bring some shock value to the bed side table. Try stepping out in front of your partner in something fun like a school girl costume or a naughty nurse outfit. Oh, yeah!!

Or, for a real adventure, ask your mate to meet you at a cozy lounge and show up wearing a wig, trench coat and sky high heels. Guaranteed to get the blood pumping! Imagine the fun you can have playing grown-up dress up with your adult playmate!

Putting together an erotic ensemble can be as easy as using items already in your closet. Go simple with some super short shorts a skin tight tank and bare freshly pedi’d feet. Or, for more elaborate amour apparel, try web crawling or visiting a specialized local shop.

Making up your face in a bolder more dramatic way, wearing a lace mask (fun!) or adding elbow length gloves to almost any outfit are sexy and unexpected finishing touches. I especially recommend the gloves as they are good in the touchy-feely department as well as being super sultry.

Half the fun is getting ready for the big reveal and anticipating the reaction your lust worthy disguise will have on that special someone. The other half is, obviously, the big reveal! So go forth and adorn yourself with sexy, slutty, come-hither abandon.

May the temperature rise in response to your vamped up disguise.

Robin Smyth has contributed to newsletters, business publications, inter-company webpages and blog sites. She has reported on multiple genres engaging a variety of styles and is known for her one draft, no edits style of writing. Follow her on Twitter @RobinDS3.